Our Wedding
April 12, 2025
5:00 in the evening
Wesley Church at Frederica
Saint Simons Island, Georgia
Reception to follow
Ocean Forest Golf Club
Sea Island, Georgia
Attire: Black Tie
*a dark suit is perfectly fine should you choose not to wear Black Tie
Transportation will be provided to/from the following hotels:
The Cloister, The Inn at Sea Island and The Hampton Inn
We kindly ask that you refrain from taking pictures and video during the ceremony in
order that all might appreciate the sacredness of the ceremony. We would love,
however, for you to share any other photographs from the weekend.
Our Story
Abigail and Julian first met in seventh grade when Julian and his family moved from Atlanta to Raleigh and enrolled at St. David’s School. Friends for several years, Julian recalls Abigail “catching his eye” one-day Junior year. Asking her to prom that spring, everyone knew Julian must have really liked Abigail when he showed up with a prom-posal of Abigail’s favorite Duke player’s jersey while Julian bled Carolina Blue! Abigail, confiding in her closest friends, that she too had taken a liking to Julian, played coy to most people denying a growing crush! It didn’t take long at the beginning of senior year for them to become an official couple, but friends admittedly found alternate rides to and from a particular football game to help facilitate some time for Abigail and Julian to ride together. The next day, Julian asked Abigail out for ice cream and it’s been a love affair in the making ever since.
Their relationship was easy from the beginning with Abigail’s beloved Mimi affectionately saying “he fits right in – just like an old shoe”. When the college application process began, each of them had a different first choice. God, however must have had other plans and, after a little disappointment of having closed doors to their top choices, both accepted offers at the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill. It was at UNC, that their faith in Christ was nourished as well as their love for one another. They spent their time in Chapel Hill as a couple but also enjoying lots of mutual friends who have witnessed and supported their relationship as it continued to grow.
Everyone who has seen their relationship develop from even a very young age, including Abigail and Julian, would say it was always a question of “when” not “if” they would get married. And so. . . if the old shoe fits, it’s meant to be worn for a lifetime.
Welcome Party
Friday, April 11, 2025
Attire: Jacket, no ties for the gentlemen; beachy cocktail for the ladies
8:30 pm – 10:30 pm
The Lawn at The Lodge at Sea Island
In case of inclement weather, this event will be held in Retreat. You will receive a text should we need to change the location
Ladies may want to consider wearing block heels both Friday and Saturday night. Friday night, weather permitting, will be all outdoors on the lawn. Parts of the reception on Saturday evening will also be on the lawn.
Prayers for the Couple
Saturday April 12, 2025
Attire: Casual – workout clothes are fine
9:30 am – 10:00am
The Cloister Chapel
This is open to any and all who might want to pray for Abigail and Julian as they start their life together. This short time of prayer will be led by friends of the bride and groom.
In case of inclement weather, The Cloister Chapel will be used for another wedding and the will be moved inside The Cloister. You will receive a text should we need to change the location.
Sea Island Accommodations
The Cloister
There is very limited availability at The Cloister, Lodge and Inn at Sea Island
This historic hotel has been consistently awarded multiple Forbes 5 stars. You will have full access to the beach club, spa and fitness facilities, world-renowned golf, tennis, and fishing, along with several wonderful on-site dining options.
For more information, please see: https://www.seaisland.com/stay/the-cloister/
Please note that Ubers are not readily available on St. Simons and Sea Island, so please plan to take advantage of the provided transportation departing to/from each hotel.
100 Cloister Dr, Sea Island, GA 31561
The Lodge
There are a few rooms left at The Lodge. The Lodge, located on St. Simons and home to two iconic golf courses, is a part of The Sea Island Resorts and gives you access to golf and all the amenities of Sea Island, including golf, spa, tennis, and fitness facilities.
To reserve your room and take advantage of this unique wedding rate, please call 844.212.1322
(this cannot be booked online).
https://www.seaisland.com/stay/the-lodge/
100 Retreat Ave, St Simons Island, GA 31522
The Inn
$250/ NIGHT
Room blocks are limited, please make your reservations as soon as possible. The Inn at Sea Island The Inn is located less than a mile from the main gate of Sea Island. It features a pool, bar and golf simulator and includes a full breakfast.
For more information, please see: https://www.seaisland.com/stay/the-inn/. Please inquire when booking your room if access to Sea Island golf (Plantation, Seaside, and Retreat courses) is available.
100 Salt Marsh Dr, St Simons Island, GA 31522
Sea Island Cottage Rentals
Guests who book a cottage as a guest of our wedding can enjoy 10% off. Be sure to mention "McClatchey Wedding" at the time of booking to receive the discount.
Please email cottageconcierge@seaisland.com to reserve your cottage.
877-269-5302
Transportation will be provided to/from the Cottages for all wedding events
Hampton Inn St. Simons Island
$191/ NIGHT
BOOK BEFORE 03/11/25
To reserve your room and take advantage of this special wedding rate, please click the button below or call 1-800-HILTONS and reference MCCLATCHEY/CAVE wedding or booking code 90R.
Please note that Ubers are not readily available on St. Simons and Sea Island so please plan to take advantage of the provided transportation departing to/from each hotel.
2204 Demere Rd, St Simons Island, GA 31522
Friday's Schedule
April 11, 2025
Guest Transportation to Rehearsal Dinner
*by invitation only
Pick Up Time - 5:15 pm
Pick Up Location - The Inn & The Cloister
Guest Transportation to Post Toast
Venue - The Lawn at the Lodge
Pick Up Time - 8:15 pm
Pick up Locations - Hampton Inn, The Inn & The Cloister
Transportation will be provided back to your pick up location.
Event ends at 10:30 pm
Please note that Ubers are not readily available on St. Simons and Sea Island so please plan to take advantage of the provided transportation departing to/from each hotel. This event will be especially important to use provided transportation as parking will be limited.
Saturday's Schedule
April 12, 2025
Guest Transportation for the wedding will be as follows:
Ceremony Venue - Wesley Church At Frederica | 6520 Frederica Rd, St Simons Island, GA 31522
Pick Up Time: 4:15 pm
Pick Up Locations - The Inn, The Lodge, The Cloister & Hampton Inn
Transportation will be provided to the reception after the ceremony.
Transportation will return back to your pick up location.
The event ends at 10:45 pm
Please note that Ubers are not readily available on St. Simons and Sea Island so please plan to take advantage of the provided transportation departing to/from each hotel.
Our Wedding Party
Maid of Honor
Sarah Curtis McClatchey
Bridesmaids
Megan Clark
Grace Haile
Ellie Haldeman
Lindsay Harris
Olivia Holder
Gracie Mauney
Carly Rittenmeyer
Lindsey Rittenmeyer
Chloe Stiles
Tatum Trysla
Mary Slade White
Best Man
Philip Cave Sr.
Groomsmen
Reid Barber
Nathan Barrier
Bryson Brown
Josh Burgess
Philip Cave Jr.
Duncan Coffey
Troy Exum
Will Kenerly
Will McClatchey
William Sheehan
Jack Tanner
Things To Do
History of Sea Island & St. Simons Island
You can read more about the history of Sea Island below:
The Beach
If staying at The Cloister or renting a Sea Island cottage, you will have access to The Beach Club. Otherwise, public access is located on the south end of St. Simon’s Island.
St. Simons was just named Southern Living's Top Beach in the South!
Golf
The Golden Isles are known for some incredible golf courses and several PGA players call it home.
If you stay at a Sea Island property, including the Inn at Sea Island or a Sea Island Cottage, you will have access to the three Sea Island Courses (Seaside, Plantation, Retreat).
If you do not stay at a Sea Island property, there are public courses on St. Simons - a nearby one is Sea Palms Resort.
Fort Frederica
For history buffs, consider visiting the beautiful land that encompasses Fort Frederica.
It is located across from Wesley Church at Frederica. Fort Frederica National Monument preserves the archaeological remnants of a fort and town built by James Oglethorpe between 1736 and 1748 to protect the southern boundary of the British colony of Georgia from Spanish raids. About 630 British troops were stationed at the fort. A town of up to 500 colonial residents had grown up outside the fort; it was laid out following principles of the Oglethorpe Plan for towns in the Georgia Colony.
Gardens of Wesley Church at Frederica & Historic Christ Church
The Wesley Memorial Gardens and Celtic Cross monument were dedicated to John and Charles Wesley on June 12, 1988. This two-acre garden has over 60 varieties of native oak trees, plants, and shrubs, including more than 4,000 azaleas, which bloom around late March-early April. Located between Christ Church and Wesley Church at Frederica. The gardens are open during daylight hours, free of charge, to the public and especially beautiful this time of year.
Christ Church is located across the street and is open to visitors Tuesday – Saturday
2:00pm – 5:00pm
St. Simons Pier and Village District
The St. Simons Island Pier Village district is situated on the southern end of the Island, at the intersection of Mallery Street and Beachview Drive, where it serves as the epicenter of the Golden Isles community. St. Simons’ Pier Village is a popular spot for shopping, dining, socializing, and fun, all with some of the area’s most treasured landmarks and spectacular sights in view. Head to the end of Mallery Street on the southern end of the village to find the promenade and pathway to the St. Simons Island Pier. The pier overlooks the St.
Simons Sound and Jekyll Island to the south, as well as the St. Simons Lighthouse and Museum and Neptune Park.
Dining/Lunch Spots
Southern Soul Barbecue
Southern barbecue restaurant serving oak-smoked meats and other delicacies
"A Southeast Coastal Georgia Smoke Joint"
Wednesdays - Mondays: 11AM - 7PM
Closed on Tuesdays
Dorothy's Cocktail and Oyster Bar
Dorothy’s Cocktail & Oyster Bar, named for chef and owner Daniel Auffenberg’s maternal grandmother, Dorothy Crane, is an upscale restaurant on St. Simons Island. Dorothy’s serves raw fresh seafood and another coastal cuisine alongside many dishes inspired by Daniel and his wife, Claire’s, travels to Southeast Asia. Dorothy’s has a large focus on craft cocktails, both original and classics.
12 Market St, St Simons Island, GA 31522
Crab Daddy's
Locally owned and operated since 1988. This is a favorite for all things seafood!
Monday-Sunday 5:00pm-9:30pm
Halyards
Located just off Sea Island and adjacent to the Inn at Sea Island. It’s sister restaurant, Trimici, serves fresh Italian and is located next door.
Monday – Saturday | 5 – 9 pm
55 Cinema Lane, St Simons, GA 31522
The Market at Sea Island
Located just outside the main gate of Sea Island
351 Sea Island Rd, St Simons Island, GA 31522
Closed Sunday-Monday
Larry's Giant Subs
Julian’s favorite is the Animal!
1600 Frederica Rd #5, St Simons Island, GA 31522
Open Monday - Sunday
10:30 am - 8:30 pm
Golden Isle Olive Oil and Market Café
Serves happy hour food · Serves great cocktails · Serves vegan dishes
1609 Frederica Rd, St Simons Island, GA 31522
Tuesday-Saturday - 10 am - 9 pm
Sunday 11 am - 5 pm
Monday 10 am - 5 pm
Sandy Bottom Bagels
242 Retreat Village, St Simons Island, GA 31522
CLOSED SUNDAYS
The Porch
549 Ocean Blvd, St Simons Island, GA 31522
Monday-Sunday 11 am - 9 pm
Shopping on the Island
Tibi
28 Market St Suite 120, St Simons Island, GA 31522
Mari Max
1806 Frederica Rd STE A, St Simons Island, GA 31522
Cloth & Label
3105 Frederica Rd, St Simons Island, GA 31522